THE SANCTUARY BY HER FERTILITY
You are more than your infertility.
The Sanctuary is an on-demand fertility support system designed to help you navigate what's happening now, strengthen your relationship with yourself, and move through infertility with greater clarity, intention, and self-trust.
Mind-body support for your fertility journey.
You can have an excellent fertility doctor and still feel everything happening between appointments. Â
This is for you if:
You're researching for an infertility support group online.
You're wondering how you're supposed to get through another month.
Everyone has an opinion about what you should do next, and you can't hear your own voice anymore.
Or you're simply tired of every thought, conversation, and decision somehow coming back to infertility.
Here's the truth:
You don't need another thing to do. You've already become an expert at searching for answers about your fertility, but how often do you turn that same attention toward supporting yourself?
What if you could explore what you're feeling, what you believe, what you actually want, what your own voice is telling you beneath all the noise?
There's a whole dimension of this experience worth exploring, and you don't have to wait until you're pregnant to begin.
There is tremendous support for trying to get pregnant + zero support for the woman trying.
I created The Sanctuary because I kept seeing the same gap in fertility care:Â Women are getting medical treatment, but still need somewhere to turn with everything they are experiencing.
Your next two-week wait is coming, but you don’t have to face it alone this time.
That's why The Sanctuary exists.
HOW IT WORKS
Not another program to complete, a place to return to:
Inside The Sanctuary, you don't have to start, follow, or finish anything. You arrive with what's happening right now:
You just received difficult news...
You're preparing for treatment...
You can't stop thinking about getting pregnant...
That's when you open The Sanctuary to find support in the moment. No appointment needed.
FIND YOURSELFÂ
Enter with what you're experiencing:
Describe what's happening right now and let The Sanctuary help you find a practice that meets you there.
Listen to a meditation, connect back to your body through movement, journal through a prompt, listen to a guided audio to release the energy of the experience, prepare your mind for what's next...
The Sanctuary is your sacred space when you need it.Â
SEE WHAT'S INSIDE
Simply type “I just got a negative test and can’t stop crying” → The Sanctuary suggests a 10-minute grief meditation.
The Sanctuary is for you if...
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you are deeply committed to getting pregnant and want to be just as intentional about how you experience the journey.
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you know there's more to you than your fertility, even when infertility demands so much of your attention.
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you want to make decisions with greater clarity and confidence, without endlessly second-guessing yourself.
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you are curious about the relationship between your thoughts, emotions, body, energy, and inner guidance.
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you recognizes that investing in yourself now is something you can continue benefiting from long after this chapter changes.
You don't have to choose between pursuing pregnancy and investing in yourself. There's room for both.
THE MOMENTS IT'S MADE FOR
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I JUST GOT HARD NEWS
I'M WAITING
MY MIND WON'T STOP
I'M SCARED TO HOPE
I'M FEELING EVERYTHING
FERTILITY TREATMENT
APPOINTMENTS + DECISIONS
RELATIONSHIPS
DAILY SUPPORT
If you've thought, "When I get pregnant, then I'll feel like myself again..."
Have you silently told yourself that when you're pregnant, you'll finally relax?
Once you're pregnant, then you'll stop questioning every decision, you'll trust your body, you'll feel free to enjoy your life without constantly calculating what might happen next.
But what if those parts of your life don't have to wait?
What if you could begin rebuilding trust in yourself while still deeply desiring pregnancy? What if you could discover how to stay connected to yourself through the decisions, uncertainty, emotions, and experiences you're navigating right now?
WHY?
Because the woman learning to hear her own voice today is the same woman who can continue drawing on it in every chapter that follows.
The Sanctuary is a place to begin that practice now.
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A growing database of on-demand support
Guided meditations, breathwork, visualizations, somatic practices, reflective exercises, energy-based support + more, curated specifically for the experience of infertility.
Whether you're processing difficult news, preparing for treatment, navigating the two-week wait, making a decision, struggling with your emotions, or simply needing ten minutes to yourself, you'll find support organized around what you're experiencing.
Access The Sanctuary whenever you need it, including from your phone, so you don't need another appointment.
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Two live gatherings with Jess every month
Group Coaching + Q&A
Bring your questions, challenges, and experiences to a live group coaching session. You can submit questions in advance, participate in the conversation, or simply listen as we explore situations other women are navigating. Replays are available if you can't attend live.
Fertility Support Circle
Once each month, we'll come together for a live support circle. This is a place to share what you're experiencing, hear from other women who understand, and feel supported without needing to explain everything. Support circles are private and are never recorded.
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Workshops + Deeper Resources
Your membership includes access to workshops + replays so that you can explore the topics that interest you, revisit them when you need to.
Workshop Replays available now:
Holistic Fertility: learn cycle tracking and lifestyle adjustments, like lowering environmental toxins, to support your fertility health.Â
Mind-Body Connection: discover what the mind-body connection is and how it impacts your fertility journey.
Energy of Fertility: discover the energy of emotions, how the body holds onto energy + what to do about it. Â
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New support added every month
The Sanctuary is an evolving space. Each month, I add new practices inspired by the questions, challenges, and experiences you are navigating. As your needs change, the support available to you will continue to grow.
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A weekly note from me
Each week, you'll receive a members-only email with deeper fertility support, updates on what's new inside The Sanctuary, upcoming live gatherings, and resources you may find helpful. Think of it as an added layer of support delivered weekly.
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Support that connects you back to yourself
The Sanctuary is organized around real experiences, not a course curriculum. Browse by situation or use the search experience to describe what you're going through and discover aligned support. You can leave comments beneath practices, share what was helpful, and see how other members are experiencing the resources.
+BONUS
Join by December 1, 2026 for the founding member rate
The Sanctuary is opening its doors to new founding members. Enter by December 1, 2026 and lock in the founding rate for as long as you keep your membership.
bonus ends at 12pm PST on December 1, 2026
Your emotional well-being matters, too.
Research on mindfulness, mind-body practices, and psychological support during infertility has found meaningful benefits for emotional well-being and quality of life.
Reduced anxiety
Mindfulness-based interventions have been associated with lower anxiety symptoms in women experiencing infertility.
Less emotional distress
Mind-body and psychological interventions have shown improvements in depressive symptoms and fertility-related distress.
Improved quality of life
Studies have reported benefits across several areas of physical, emotional, and social well-being.
The value of group support
Structured group interventions have been shown to improve emotional well-being during fertility treatment.
Because you deserve to feel supported while you're trying to get pregnant, not just after.
What would it feel like to know, with confidence, that you are on the right path?
Infertility can make you feel like the answer is always somewhere outside of you, but sometimes you need space to hear yourself think, tools to understand what you're feeling, and guidance to reconnect with the parts of yourself that have gone quiet.
The Sanctuary is your space to take the weight of what you're carrying and find the support you need. The practices inside the database are grounded in nervous system regulating techniques, autonomic + neuro-regulation tools, and self-regulating sequences. This sacred space is designed to help you feel supported, find clarity, and move through the experience without losing yourself along the way.
“I couldn’t solve my way out of this one.
When something isn’t working, I usually research it and fix it. After my daughter was born, I assumed getting pregnant again would be straightforward. Instead came months of negative tests, then a miscarriage that broke me.Â
Being inside The Sanctuary was the first time someone helped me feel like myself again.”
- Chelsea, Secondary Infertility
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“For the first time, I trusted my own body and my own choices.
I was told for most of my life that because of PCOS (PMOS) I’d never conceive naturally. Jess helped me take care of my mind. I learned how to calm the inner fear long enough to think clearly, make choices I felt good about, and stay steady through uncertainty.Â
That steadiness still carry into every part of my life, not only my fertility, because today I’m a mom!”
- Shantal, PCOS
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“I’m a therapist, and I still needed this.
I thought I had the tools. I had a good doctor, a supportive husband but still needed something more for the emotional support during IVF. I think the hardest part was watching my closest friends announce pregnancies, but I always had The Sanctuary to pull me back to myself."
- Jenna, IVF
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Experiences shared by women supported through Her Fertility. Individual experiences vary.
Hi, I'm Jess,
During infertility I lost myself to the constant questioning of 'what am I missing', 'what am I doing wrong', and 'maybe I'm not meant to be a mom'.
I created Her Fertility because I felt that there had to be a better way to support women through the experience of infertility.
I've presented fertility research at the American Society for Reproductive Medicine and spoken internationally about fertility support, but what has shaped my work most is sitting with women through the parts of infertility that don't fit neatly into a treatment plan.
I've sat with women during the fear before another transfer, guided them through the questions that won't stop, gave them tools for the grief of waking to another day without a baby, and have guided them through decisions that feel too big to make.
I've spent years helping women find steadiness, clarity, and connection to themselves and I created The Sanctuary so that you can have that level of support whenever you need it.
I'm inviting you to join me inside The Sanctuary.
You've invested so much in trying to get pregnant. What about caring for yourself along the way?
There are so many things you can invest in during infertility. But what about having somewhere to turn when the emotional weight of it all shows up?
Hoping you're covering every possibility.
Making time for complementary care.
A dedicated moment to unwind and reconnect with yourself.
Ongoing access to practices, workshops, and support for the woman navigating infertility.
Because the woman going through infertility deserves just as much care as the fertility journey itself.
The Sanctuary: $200/month, billed monthly. Daily equivalent based on a 30-day month. Other prices are illustrative examples and vary. The Sanctuary complements, rather than replaces, medical and mental health care.
YOUR INVITATION TO ENTER THE SANCTUARY
It is time to support your journey. The Sanctuary is opening its doors, and I'd love to welcome you as one of its members. You don't need to know what you need, you just need to say 'yes' to yourself.
YOUR INVESTMENT
$200/monthÂ
$130/month Founding Member
One monthly membership gives you access to the complete Sanctuary experience:
- Full access to The Sanctuary database
- Two live gatherings with Jess each month
- All group coaching replays
- Bonus workshops and deeper resources
- *NEW* content added monthly
- Weekly member-only emails
- Search tools and mobile access
- Opportunities to submit questions for live coaching
Monthly membership. Cancel anytime. Immediate access.
Founding Member rate of $130/month available
until December 1, 2026
A few things you might be wondering:
Is The Sanctuary another course I have to complete?
What if I can't attend the live sessions?
Will I get individual support from Jess?
Do I have to be doing IVF?
What if I'm new to meditation or energy work?
Can I cancel my membership?
Will The Sanctuary help me get pregnant?
How do I access everything?
You already know what you're willing to do to become a mother.
Now imagine bringing that same commitment, curiosity, and devotion to the woman you are today.
To knowing yourself more deeply.
To trusting your decisions.
To hearing your own voice, even when the world around you is full of opinions.
To creating a relationship with yourself that doesn't depend on what your next pregnancy test says.
This is what The Sanctuary invites you into.
And you can begin right now.
Click the button below to enter The Sanctuary.